Secret relationship

'Relationship' is a very sensitive word in the mist of teenagers. Once you get closer to a girl or boy, the word 'relationship' appears in your mind. However, don't you think teenagers like to show off their boyfriend or girlfriend,but there is much much teenagers like to have secret relationship.

What is secret relationship? Secret relationship is having a relationship that nobody knows except you and your 'lover'. Why teenagers like to have secret relationship? Aren't they like to 'show off' their girlfriend or boyfriend?

Here, I did some survey on 5 persons. 4 15 years teenagers and 1 40+ adult. Some of them told me having secret relationship is more romantic,cooler. Some said for fun and another one said that teenagers are not serious in relationship, so to avoid embarrassing situation. The adult that I asked answered me having secret relationship is teenagers' privacy. Just like the files in governments department.

Are they say out a correct opinion? Are teenagers really not having serious attitude in the relationship? What do they expect in a relationship?Is that relationship is a kind of fashion or style?

In while, teenagers having secret relationship is a good actor or actress in life. To prevent their 'secret relationship' to be exposed, they will try anything to prevent this thing happen. One of the most famous trick is to lie to his friends,family and everyone he knew. Why must they did all these things? Is everyone we know having secret relationship? Should relationship be treated in such nasty way?

Should teenagers having relationship in adolescence stage? Having secret relationship might be cool, but what's the precious value in the relationship? Is it just a game that had been created in 21st century in the mist of teenagers? I believe in the corner of the world, there must be teenagers having a open relationship that ready to keep the promises in a relationship.